When
life throws you
more than you feel prepared to handle, the smart and
courageous thing is to reach out for help.
People undergoing stress offer experience a number of troubling
physical and mental effects. When they are under extraordinary
stress, they might have anxiety attacks, trouble sleeping,
mysterious aches and pains in their bodies, memory lapses, high blood
pressure, depression, feelings of helplessness, and incessant worrying.
Stressful events vary in severity, but when one's life or physical
safety are threatened, people can also dissociate (leave their body and go somewhere else in their minds) and have intrusive
flashbacks or re-experiencing of the event. (See the PTSD checklist on
the Quizzes Tab for more examples of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
symptoms). If any of these applies to you, please keep reading.
Are you are looking for an experienced, compassionate therapist who can
help you recover from past hurts? Then please consider calling me.
I love to
assist trauma survivors improve their relationships with other people,
and with themselves. I help people recover from a number
of overwhelming and
troubling events, including:
- Childhood physical abuse and sexual abuse
(including incest)
- Rape and sexual assault
- Witnessing or experiencing a life-threatening event
- Divorces or breakups that are very damaging and full of conflict
- Serious or life-threatening illnesses (receiving the diagnosis)
- Natural disasters like floods,
hurricanes, earthquakes, etc.
- Toxic parenting and emotional abuse from
our families of origin
- Car and/or industrial accidents
- Unfinished grieving of a lost loved one
Adults, unlike children, may assume that they should be able to handle
stress all on their own. Children often naturally accept that they
need
help with many things, since they don't yet have as much experience handling
stress. When overwhelming events
take place, it is
vital to get help. Otherwise it can take a long time to get one's life back
to normal.
Talking to someone with experience in trauma and grief can be very
helpful in re-establishing coping skills and building new resources
for well-being.
I use Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
(EMDR) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), among other
techniques, to help people cope with overwhelming stress and trauma. I
have seen many people reclaim various aspects of their lives with the
use of these skills and techniques. I am happy to hear when a
client
who was molested can now enjoy sex, or someone who was ashamed of
their bodies can now enjoy food normally. Other people have reduced their
cutting or acting out behaviors because they can now use other skills
to deal with their pain. Together we can help you build a life worth
living. Whatever trauma you may have experienced in your life,
We can get
through this together!
I am a 38-year-old licensed
psychologist
who’s been helping young and old people for over ten years. I
help trauma survivors in numerous ways.
By providing a safe place to talk about what happened, I create a
trusting, reparative relationship with my clients where they can gain a
new understanding of what happened to them, and a new experience of
themselves in relation to that event. I provide psychoeducation about
trauma, depression, substance abuse, and anxiety. I also
teach new skills to help you cope more effectively and make better
choices.
In addition, I help change thinking patterns by examining and
challenging your old ways of thinking that don't work for you anymore.
This provides the new understanding. By helping you access your inner
wisdom and strength, I help you gain a new experience of yourself as
strong, capable, and in charge of your life.
I also work with children
and teens who have suffered trauma using play and art, as well as regular talk therapy, to help them come
to similar conclusions about themselves. Please
call 510-258-4431
to find out how I can help, or send an email through the "Contact Me"
link below.
I hope you explore the tabs on the website to use the tools and
questionnaires available. If I can help in any way with the use of this
site please contact me. I am always interested in ways to make this
site work better for visitors, so your feedback is welcome and
encouraged.
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